With the pandemic over (hopefully), many people are re-entering the dating scene and meeting new people in person again. Dating can still be a challenge, and even more so when we come out of a year without much socializing, but it can be even more difficult for those who don’t drink. Why? Because just like most social situations in our culture, dates are often lubricated with alcohol, and often, “Would you like a drink?” is the default first date suggestion. And the alcohol-free dates in Charlotte?
As the founder of an alcohol-free social club in Charlotte called Counter-culture club, I like to challenge the idea that it takes alcohol to have fun on a date. Believe it or not, you can go anywhere and do anything alcohol-free, so while you can still find yourself having a drink and something alcohol-free, why not be a little more creative with it? your appointments?
With a little help from the Counterculture Club Instagram audience, I’ve put together a list of creative, alcohol-free dates in the Charlotte area. You will have so much fun that it doesn’t matter what is in your glass.
111 W. Bank Street, Salisbury
After the year we’ve had, I think a lot of us could benefit from a trip to the Grievous Gallery, where it’s not only OK but encouraged to break stuff. At the Grievous Gallery, you can wear comfortable clothes, bring your own reading list, put on safety glasses and just break dishes. Make sure you put the correct address in the GPS, including postcode, or you and your date could end up in a granite quarry (consider this date idea 1a).
Some of us still live in Zoomland, where every day we make direct eye contact with colleagues through a screen. Going for a walk outside on a date is one way to get outside, lower your cortisol levels, and get some exercise. You can also have a quality conversation without distractions, and you don’t have to look intently into the other person’s eyes – unless you like to walk college guide style (not recommended if you want a second Appointment).
5000 Whitewater Center Pkwy.
There’s something for everyone at the US National Whitewater Center. You can grab a bite to eat at River’s Edge and hike through the park’s 48 miles of hiking and biking trails, or go rafting, ziplining, canoeing, kayaking, rock climbing and / or mountain biking. stand-up paddle. If you’re not feeling active, there’s also River Jam, the free concert series that takes place every Thursday, Friday, and Saturday from May through September.
If you’re from Charlotte, you’ve probably attended a lot of birthday parties at Kate’s rinks, but maybe not in 20 years. Whether you let that childhood memory slip away or not, Kate’s is still alive and well and even features adult parties with live DJs.
920 central avenue
It may not be a first date option, but who knows, it might be for you and your date. White Rabbit is an LGBTQ +-centric store that sells quirky gifts including books, cards, jewelry, adult toys, and other new stuff. Have fun together browsing the shelves. Then you can stroll through Plaza Midwood, grab a coffee nearby at Central Coffee Co., or head straight home to test out your new merchandise.
Sycamore Commons and Stonecrest shopping centers
Kabab-Je is a relaxed Mediterranean restaurant with two locations and offers some of the best Mediterranean cuisine in Charlotte. Neither place serves alcohol, so this is the perfect dining option if you want to eat delicious food together and leave the alcohol behind.
114 Raven Drive, Kings Mountain
Drive-in theaters experienced a renaissance during the pandemic, and they’re still a great option for a date night. Hounds Drive-In is one of my favorites for the menu alone, which includes everything from fried pickles and burgers to funnel cakes, in addition to the usual movie theater fare. Everything on the menu is priced under $ 10, so you won’t have to take out a small loan to buy a big popcorn at your date.
Go to an escape room
An escape room might be the only time finding an exit strategy is actually a sign of a good Dated. This interactive experience gives you the chance to combine your problem solving skills and work together to achieve a common goal. Escape rooms are also scheduled for around an hour, so depending on how it goes, you can either continue on the date or implement your real exit strategy. There are several escape rooms in Charlotte, including Timed exhaust, The escape box, Exit strategy, and more.
1908 Boulevard East
Pack a meal for two, grab sandwiches at a local restaurant along East Boulevard, or if you really want to wow your date, work with a local luxury picnic designer like Alchemy events to create the ultimate romantic picnic experience. If you want a quieter vibe, go there at dusk and take a walk around the pond after your meal.
Get a little culture with a Hop Museum
Uptown Charlotte offers a plethora of museums all within walking (or scooter) of each other. You can buy a Levine Center for the Arts Pass for $ 20, which gives you 48-hour access to the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art, Harvey B. Gantt Center, and both Mint Museum sites.
So the next time your Bumble / Hinge / dating-app match asks you what you should do on your date, consider picking an option that is outside the box – and glass.
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